
The parents should find people who are close to the family and can rely on their information regarding the boy or girl. Try to find the chaverim or chaveros, the friends that studied together with that individual in school. From them you should be able to find out more information.
The Rebbe said that the family should not rely on, mainly, the shadchan/ness because they have a personal interest that the shidduch should go through. This is how the Rebbe advised one should conduct research.
The Rebbe said that the family should not rely on, mainly, the shadchan/ness because they have a personal interest that the shidduch should go through. This is how the Rebbe advised one should conduct research.